Midnight Wanders

I've kind of overcoming my insecurities of being afraid to be judged, about being nervous on talking to people, on being afraid to have friends. I kind of being good at not giving a crap and suddenly things got better. But as every major point of my life, when something feel like its going up hill, I should get ready for the heavy down fall that will follow. Usualy the down fall would just be me crying to my boyfriend and tell him how I feel worthless. But this time I'm afraid I will have some emptiness. I can feel it waiting for me right around the corner. After every social event or even small social interaction I'm feeling something's missing. I didn't left any of my things behind yet I feel something is missing. I'm afraid to fill that emptiness I might do something crazy. Something inhumane. Something merciless. I'm getting so afraid because my brain starts to think that it's something I can be okay with. I don't know. Maybe I just need...

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Udah lama gak begadang. Udah lama juga gak main-main ke blog ini. Seperti biasa gue nulis disini dalam kegelapan dengan sumber cahaya cuma dari layar hape aja. Gue tadinya cuma pengen ganti theme di blog ini karena iseng. Sekalian ngeliat hasil theme baru, gue baca lagi post lalu-lalu yang ada disini. Hal-hal yang gue tulis disini semua membangkitkan emosi tertentu, ada seneng, sedih, galau, hepi, gugup. Soalnya tiap kali gue nulis disini pasti lagi ada sesuatu yang pengen banget gue ceritain tapi gatau bisa cerita ke siapa. Tapi kali ini beda karena bener-bener pengen say hi aja. (Tanda positif kalo lu introvert adalah saat benda mati virtual bisa bikin lu kangen berat). Mau cerita apa ya disini.. Hidup lagi datar-datar aja. Current mood ada sedihnya, ada hepinya, ada bingungnya, ada stressnya, dan ada maagnya. Ada sedikit rasa gamang dan curiga yang dipicu oleh kekosongan. Terasa ada sedikit yang hilang meskipun gue gatau itu apa. Ada perasaan yang dulu pernah dirasakan di saat-saa...

I spent my time so much on thinking. My mind seems to love to just wander around in its own world. Wandering what have happen and what might not happen. It likes to seek answers for question it asks it self, not to others but to it self again. And sometimes those unanswerable questions, together with so many what ifs just sent me off to sudden headache. The next thing I hate after my monthly cramps. After jumping on so many unimportant subject, in one quiet night, I came up with a realization for things I just got blinded for quite a long time. After those quick awakening, I then made some resolutions for my self to be a better me. According to me. Realization: 1. I've been a bitch To everyone around me, especially my closest one. I guess it has something to do with my rapidly decreasing confident level. I take my work as a serious business. I take pride for what I do. All these barrier that blocking my way on doing things makes my confidence lay down low and I just fee...

I always love to drive at night. There's something feels so peaceful while doing it. I guess it's for the fact that the darkness kinda hide my self more from other people's eye. I find that darkness always brings the true me out. My muscles seems more relaxed. My anxiety suddenly dissapear and gone with the wind.  I'm the kind of people who likes to act based on people around me. This is how I cope with my social anxiety but another problem appears when I met different group of people that I treat differently. Now that's another problem.  After quite a moment on my long way home today, I realized that darkness is letting us to spot and highlight truly what we want to show. Like all those wispy christmas lights on december, or that spotlight for all of the great angel statues on rose gardens, or maybe just the way we put lamps on our porch close to the door so anyone knows where to enter. That's it. That's why I love darkness so much. I like ...

Tiba-tiba kangen suasana bengong di rumah sambil liat keluar jendele ke langit yang berawan. Kangen waktu pulang kuliah dan gak ada kerjaan kemdian bengong-bengong gak jelas. Kangen DVD marathon Grey's Anatomy sama American Horror Story. Kangen waktu awal jadian. Manis-manisnya, gemes-gemesnya, kangen-kangennya. :3 Kangen jalan-jalan ke kota kecil yang tenang dan lambat lajunya. Kangen

Well, my ID said that my religion is Budha, while my dad said we are a Confusius' followers. I get schooled in a catholic institution for my whole life and now I have a moslem boyfriend. I've never been in a serious learning about all the religion mentioned above but I've understand some basic. When you entitled for something you might or might not know deeply about it, you're counted as a representative for that matter. When you feel like you're a representative of some sort you grew the feeling of protecting them and you feel like you know them more than you actually do. I've come to the point where I understand that all religion means no harm to others. They all exist to give some guidelines to mankind so they have something to hold on to, something to reflect their lives to, something to give hope when all else have failed. Something I don't understand is how people use that guide line, a very peaceful one on the planet as many people think it i...